Some people seem naturally driven by a deep need to fix everyone around them, including themselves. Here's why they need to let it go, by DrSandraParker
"But if only he'd see what he's doing to himself, and to me, to us!" she exclaimed."If only he would stop drinking and face his feelings, then we could have a great life together."
I know exactly what Charlene meant about the drive to get in there and try to solve things that don't feel good. I am a world-class fixer, or at least I used to be. Many years ago I was a compulsive helper. There was no pain in the lives of people I loved that I wouldn't try to ease.My impulse came from a kind and loving place inside of me, where I would put my needs aside and focus my energy on getting the other person to do what they needed to do to have a better life.
The key for me was seeing how a small signal in my own body was the true driver for my urge to jump in with a machete to cut down the underbrush, build a road, and drive a big truck toward some goal that was never a hundred percent in my control. Unrest was calling me to recognize my human limits.
Almost everything that happens in life is a function of multiple forces. One's effort and will and intention all play a role, but so do myriad other factors: time, gravity, our
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