Advice: A letter-writer tried to tell their friends not to be friends with a famous man who did unethical and immoral things, but they didn’t listen.
At the time, when I expressed my dismay, they treated me in a condescending manner, saying I didn’t know how business was done. Time has gone by, and sure enough, this man is on trial, and it’s worse than I thought. Cody and Nicole act as if they never imagined the truth; I think they’re just surprised he’s been called out. I find myself disgusted with them.
My husband still wants to socialize with them; I don’t. If I do see them, I’d like to say “I told you so,” then ask why they excused his behavior for so long and how they reconcile that with their regular church attendance. I’m unreligious and find them to be hypocrites.of whether their behavior can be forgiven is outside the purview of etiquette, but your proposed solution is not.
A close work friend asked me whether I would help her throw such a baby shower for another co-worker. We issued invitations to all of our female colleagues , but to our dismay, we had only four people accept. Including the hosts and guest of honor, the shower ended up being a total of eight people.I sponsored the gathering at my home and spent a lot of money — on food, decorations, cake, prizes, gifts, etc.
The following Monday, I was in the mail room and learned that the reason nobody attended was because there had already been a shower for this co-worker a few weeks before ours, and they all attended that one. I was speechless. Not only did my friend and I not make the cut for the first shower, but the mother-to-be also allowed us to throw her a second one. I am furious. Any thoughts on how to handle this?little good will come of trying to determine whether your co-worker actively took advantage of you, or whether she was paralyzed by embarrassment when she realized you did not know about the first shower — then compounded her initial misstep.
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