Advice: He took his family’s advice and married a great woman, but now a baby’s on the way, and he’s feeling shut in.
And I did. Now we are expecting our first child, and I’m kind of freaking out and wondering whether this was anything I ever wanted. I feel a little bit trapped.
I can’t tell Maryann. She’s so happy. Is this normal for a man facing fatherhood? There’s no one I can talk to this about without feeling like a jerk. What do I do now?That can mean different things on the stay/go/speak up/shut up/fake it/make it continuum, but it all falls under “owning it.” You’re in this because you listened to outside voices like an obedient child instead of listening to your own needs, wants and nature.
I know that it’s hard to find someone available, affordable and compatible, and to admit that you need help with something that everyone else seems to manage without help. But if you edit your words carefully to make yourself look and feel better, then it won’t be the truth, and you won’t get the help you need.What you’re feeling is normal. Your life has changed, and it’s going to change even more. This is a crazy time, and you’re not a bad person or “immature” for feeling overwhelmed.
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