'I thought I was the father for five months. After that, I got a paternity test and found out it wasn't mine. The weird part is my parents still babysit and treat the kid like their grandkid, so she's at a lot of family functions and such.'
"Men who have discovered a child you raised isn't biologically yours, how did you find out, and what did you do about it?"As you can imagine, the stories the men shared were a total emotional rollercoaster. Here are some of the most insightful ones:"I found out when my daughter was 4 that she was fathered by a guy my then-wife had had an affair with. I had been a stay-at-home dad for her for the first two years of her life.
"My oldest son finally confessed to me at 19 years old that he once had walked in on his mother and my friend one time when I was at work. He was only around 5 or 6 years old at the time, so he had no idea what he was seeing. Well, I managed to get hair samples from both my friend and youngest son without them knowing it, and paid to have them tested. My suspicions became a reality. At this point, my illegitimate son is 25 years old, and I don't see what it would accomplish to tell him.
"I had no clue what was going on. I called her back, and we talked. The kid was only a couple of months old, but he had my hair color, and if you squinted hard enough, you could see me in him. I decided I should take it on, I'll be a dad, but I wouldn't get back together with her. When I told my siblings, they all told me to get a DNA test. I said I would, but I had already bought a bunch of baby stuff, and I tried my best to be a dad in the meantime. When the result came back 99.
"I did one of those at-home paternity tests, and the results were a resounding no! I was devastated. I loved the kid and was working toward fighting for full custody. When I confronted her, she basically admitted to it all. She immediately stopped the child support although under current state law, she doesn't need to. This all happened 14 years ago. In the end, I should have gotten the paternity test done, and she should have told me there was another guy.
"Eventually, she starts to let him see him again. My friend spent a fortune on toys and games and more. When the child was 6, she decided that the money she was getting wasn't enough and rather than talk to my friend, goes to the CSA . My friend was angry and said he'd pay more, but he wanted a blood test first. The kid wasn't his. He offered to pay her money the same as before as long as he could keep seeing his son.
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