Why 'I know what's best for you' is such a dangerous mindset to have in a relationship
Despite the impossibility of ever genuinely knowing what is best for another person from their perspective, we nevertheless often believe that we do. And that’s where the real trouble comes in. If we entertained only ourselves with fanciful ideas about knowing the ideal way for another person to live their life, that would probably be harmless enough. But it never stops there because we never think our ideas are fanciful.
To nullify our effects, the other person might tacitly agree, and then get back to doing whatever it was they were doing before we imposed our tutorial-in-living on them. They might also seek to minimize contact with us in the future. Or they could respond somewhat more emphatically than with a simple withdrawal and let us know exactly what they think of our tips. Perhaps they might even offer us some advice of their own.
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