'If anyone has negative things to say, that says so much more about them than it does about me.'
every day, I was too shy to join my friends in wearing shorts. I bought a few pairs online and tried them on in the privacy of my home, wearing them for a bit each day, trying to get more comfortable. But every time I attempted to wear them out of the house, I got scared. What if someone made fun of me again? What would others think? People are not typically kind to fat folks, and I was really nervous about the responses I would get. So, the shorts stayed at home.
If anyone has negative things to say about me and what I choose to wear, that says so much more about them than it does about me.. I've started following fat babes on Instagram who have great style, and I've learned a lot about how to dress my body in ways that feel good. I've had a chance to work through my own internalized fatphobia and confront some of my own biases and self-hatred, while also learning about things like the Health At Every Size movement and intuitive eating.
For me, wearing shorts is the culmination of all of this hard work. It's the rejection of the negative thoughts andand a sign to myself that I'm putting my money where my mouth is. It's learning in action, and a chance to show myself that I'm not just reading about these things, but living them. Also, if anyone has negative things to say about me and what I choose to wear, that says so much more about them than it does about me.
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