When kids curse, is discipline or ignoring the best tactic?
My middle-aged son and daughter-in-law cut off contact with me completely two years ago in an elaborately written email that blamed me for everything bad that ever happened to him and his wife. Since then I have written five emails to him .
Recently, my siblings and my late husband’s siblings received emails from his email account that referred to an older female relative who was spreading lies about them and listed many things that “this person” had done wrong in their 18 years of marriage including being the cause of their inability to have children. Everything I have ever said has been remembered, noted, and twisted, right back to their wedding.
I will go along with his or their wishes for no contact; it is their choice. But, I don’t think he/they should contact my siblings or in-laws with such accusations. When my siblings and in-laws don’t object to what my son and daughter-in-law have said—are they indicating approval? I wonder if my son even knows that his wife is writing from his email.
All you can really do is respect their wish not to contact them , and to correct actual factual inaccuracies if third parties bring them to your attention. You can’t control how others will respond , and you also have to make your peace with the idea that, however upsetting, you also cannot control how your son and his wife feel about your conduct. I don’t know you, and I don’t know if their criticisms are valid.
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