Yes, I know divorce happens. But my brother-in-law is just as much a part of my family in my eyes as my brother.
Are there any rules or thoughts regarding these new relationships as marriages end and new relationships begin?Your brother and his former husband appear to be handling their soon-to-be dissolution in a civil manner -- VERY civil, if they’re taking a pre-divorce European vacation together. If they part as friends, your chances of maintaining a friendship with your former BIL are better.
Keep an open mind and be gracious when you meet the new man in your brother’s life. Avoid gossip, cross your fingers and hope for the best for everyone. That’s all you can do. From the tone of your letter, I am sure you can handle this, Sis.My 57-year-old husband is consumed with watching videos on his cellphone. This is like an addiction for him. He spends hour after hour of his home time with his phone in hand watching all kinds of videos.
I told him once that if we had a child, we certainly would not allow our child to spend anywhere near as much time watching videos on the phone, tablet or computer. Again, a blank look. He doesn’t regard his excessive screen time as a problem. I certainly do. What can I do or say? I’m at the end of my rope.Your husband gives you a blank look because he’s so engrossed in this entertainment he doesn’t realize how much time he’s actually spending on his cellphone. By the way, he isn’t alone in having that problem. It’s shared by people of all ages. The reasons can range from being caught in “email hell” for hours to using it as a deliberate escape from reality.
Because you have reached the end of your rope and have become virtually a widow, tell your husband that if he wants to continue being married, he must consent to marriage counseling. And, if he gives you another blank look, consult a lawyer.
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