A new dad is ready to cut his racist FIL out of his child's life but wonders if that might be going too far.
In the last few weeks, the national conversation has dramatically shifted. Millions of Americans are checking theirfor decades. But not everyone has seen the light. For instance, one man on Reddit is so, that he's considering cutting him out of his child's life -- for good.But the state of the world -- and his father-in-law's behavior -- has gotten him thinking about what kind of people he wants his son to be influenced by as he grows.
"I have put up with family gatherings with him for our entire relationship," he continued."If it was my father I'd cut him off immediately but I can't make that decision for her so I keep my peace.""I have told him I don't like the word respectfully, but he just keeps doing it," the man continued."I'm old enough to make to decisions, my child is just born and will absorb what is around him.
"It’s all fun and games until your kids gets old enough to speak and spits that word out everywhere," another person added."Kids learn by example.""My mom is in her mid 60s and I have numerous aunts and uncles in their 60s and 70s and none of them think that way or use that word, and they grew up in the rural mid-West," one person wrote."Stop giving him a pass just because he's old.
There were also some commenters who pointed out the husband might want to question why his wife isn't more bothered by her dad's behavior."Your wife is enabling her father's racist language, and to turn around and accuse you of being controlling for attempting to set boundaries is appalling of her," another person told the dad."The real problem lies with her. He wouldn't pull that racist crap if she told him not to or cut him off.
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