Advice: He wanted an open marriage so she asked for a divorce. He calls it “devastating.”
I have more self-respect than that, so I filed for divorce. I do not need his money, and I am buying him out of our house. I made him move into the guest room, and I cannot wait until he moves out entirely. In the meantime, I have tried to maintain my dignity and protect our grown children by refusing to discuss the details of our divorce.But now I have to hear him lying to our sons about being miserable.
· You can say something thought-provoking, such as, “I hope any child of mine would withhold judgment if they were not certain they knew all the details.”· There is no airing required to say truthfully and simply that, yes, you were shocked when he wanted out of the type of marriage you had promised to each other.
· It seems entirely appropriate to say: “He wanted an open marriage, and I did not. So I filed for divorce.” True and short and does not really invite questions. · Just because you have decided not to tell your children does not mean you cannot talk to a good therapist or a trusted friend and properly air out what is going on.
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