Advice: A couple go on their first vacation together only to learn they want to do completely different things.
We want to be with each other, but there doesn’t seem to be a way to get our rhythms together. We don’t have the money for a big trip every year, so this will probably come up every few years at most. How can we set good couple vacation habits now?Does he want to adjust at all to your schedule? I.e.
Your best chance of finding an agreeable overlap, where he does get up earlier than he’d like but later than you’d like, is if he doesn’t like the feel of having separate, parallel vacations. But the way you phrase your question, he is not willing to “rise at any set time” — so if you want change, then you’ll have to make it.· I read this somewhere, that it’s useful to distinguish between vacation and travel because they’re so different — one is to relax, rest and recharge, and the other is often physically and mentally taxing, seeing a new place, getting around in a language you don’t know, new food/new water, hikes/treks/long lines.
So I am going to look at other occasional travel options. I am not a big traveler by any means, but I do like to get away for more than a couple of days at times. I finally decided to deal with what we have rather than trying to force what I want. While I agree Vacationing's partner should consider adjusting schedules at least part of the time, dropping expectations and adjusting accordingly may be the way forward.
· I learned there are two kind of vacations — do everything, and hang by the pool and do nothing. I find it useful to know what kind of vacation my partner has in mind before we go.
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