I’m going to let them know exactly how much I don’t need their so-called friendship.
What do you think of my proposed response at the end of our next book meeting? I will say: “Well, ladies, I’m so busy with houseguests and other commitments, plus I’m trying to finish writing my book, so I’m going to have to take a break for a while. But I’ll be back. Oh, and by the way, thank you for all the many invitations to join you for lunch or dinner. I was bereft when my husband died, so that meant a lot to me.
You might propose that the group read and discuss Joan Didion’s important meditation on mourning, “The Year of Magical Thinking” .But please do not withdraw from your friendships.The last time they visited was prior to COVID-19 restrictions. My daughter overheard me and, of course, was very offended. I apologized multiple times since for this and thought we were good, but I have been informed that they will not be staying with me when they visit.My daughter will not change her mind. How do I get past this and enjoy what time I am allowed?If she and the kids are staying nearby, then you won’t necessarily be missing out on too much.
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